Scissors (Sex position)

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Scissors is a sexual position in which the partners' bodies are positioned in such a way that their legs are intertwined, forming a shape resembling scissors. You will realize that you have reached the right position when your intimate areas touch.

Partner's actions

Man

The man is positioned on his side opposite his partner. Usually, one leg is placed between her legs while his other leg is placed on top to provide a stable position. The man controls the rhythm of the movements, varying them from slow and smooth to more vigorous. He can also adjust the angle of penetration by leaning slightly forward or backward; while the man's arms can wrap around the woman's waist, hip, or shoulder, which enhances intimacy and adds emotional support.

Woman

The woman lies across from her partner, also crossing her legs. She can direct the movements by raising or lowering her legs slightly, adjusting to the rhythm and intensity. The woman can also use her arms to put her arms around the man's shoulders. Depending on the angle she is comfortable with, she can change the inclination of her body for an optimal position.

Advantages and disadvantages

Advantages

• It is great for clitoral stimulation, as in this position the partners can maintain a tight contact that promotes additional stimulation.
• The position is characterized by a high degree of intimacy. Here, the close proximity of the bodies allows you to maintain eye contact and embrace, which increases the emotional connection between the partners.
• In this position you can effectively stimulate the G-spot, especially with the right choice of angle and rhythm of movements.
• Scissors pose is simple enough to perform, so it can be mastered even by novice couples, without requiring high flexibility or special physical preparation.

Disadvantages

• Tight contact may seem uncomfortable for some people, especially those who prefer a looser position.
• For people with knee or joint problems, scissors can be difficult, as the position on the side and crossed legs can cause strain.
• For those who prefer deep and intense penetration, this pose may not be the best option as it limits the range of motion and depth.

Additional variations and experimentation in the Scissors sex position

• Standard scissors  is the basic version of the scissors sex position, which is performed simply and comfortably; where both partners start in a sitting position with knees bent. The woman then lies on her back with her legs slightly apart and the man also lies down, repeating her movements. The man places one leg on top of the woman's leg and the other leg under her other leg, forming a classic cross-legged position.
• Deep scissors sex position is a variation that allows for increased penetration. The woman leans closer to her partner and can put her arms around his neck, creating an opportunity for the man to penetrate deeper. This position promotes closer contact and increases intimacy.
• Reverse scissors is a variation in which the woman is positioned on top. To do this, she starts in a sitting position with bent knees, and the man lies on his back and spreads his legs. The woman places one leg on top of the man's leg and the other under his opposite leg, repeating the “scissors” form, but on top.
• Double scissor sex position is a more unusual version of the position, involving simultaneous penetration for both partners. In heterosexual couples, this may involve the use of a double-sided dildo inserted into the anus of the man and either the vagina or the anus of the woman, which adds an element of experimentation and novelty. For lesbian couples, this position is also popular: a double-sided dildo is inserted into each partner's vagina, providing contact and synchronized movements.

Safety when performing the Scissors sex position

• Avoid excessive tension in the knees and hips. Crossed legs can put extra strain on joints, especially if either partner has mobility issues. You can change the position of your legs periodically and use pillows for support to reduce strain.
• Use lubricant to prevent friction. Tight contact in the scissor position can increase friction, which sometimes leads to discomfort. Therefore, lubricants can help avoid discomfort and make sex enjoyable.
• Avoid sudden movements. Scissors sex position is better suited to a slow rhythm; as smooth movements minimize the risk of accidental injury or discomfort, especially for strain-sensitive partners.
• Use condoms. Using barrier contraception, such as condoms or female condoms, will help reduce the risk of STD transmission. It is important to openly discuss health conditions and infection test results with your partner for reassurance and safety
• Take care of your hygiene. Before intimacy, it is recommended that you shower and take care to keep your intimate area clean.

What is the difference between scissor sex position and tribbing?

Scissors  sex position

Scissor sex position is usually used for vaginal or anal penetration and can be performed by opposite-sex or same-sex couples. In this position, partners lie on their sides and cross their legs, forming a scissor-like shape. This position allows for gentle and comfortable penetration, as the partners can adjust the depth and angle; where the focus is on penetration and the ability to vary the rhythm.

Tribbing

Tribbing (or “rubbing”) is a sexual practice often associated with same-sex female couples. Unlike the scissors pose, tribbing does not involve penetration; instead, the partners rub their genitals against each other, stimulating the clitoris and other erogenous zones. Tribbing may also involve crossing legs, and partners often face each other to maintain contact and increase intimacy, and it focuses on external stimulation, being suitable for those seeking pleasure without the need for penetration.

Comparison

While the two positions may look similar due to the crossed legs and close contact, the main difference is the goal: Scissors pose is focused on penetration, while tribbing focuses on external stimulation.