Pegging
What is pegging?
Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on (strap-on dildo). The word “ pegging” (from the English word “ pegging”) was officially proposed and fixed in 2001, as a result of a vote organized by the famous American sex blogger Dan Savage. Before that, the practice had existed for a long time, but did not have its own name - it was described with phrases like “a woman fucks a man with a strapon”.
This is not just a kind of anal sex - it is a separate direction of intimate dynamics with a deep psychological and sexual component. Below I'll go into detail about anatomy, sensation, technique, psychology, fetishization, risks, preparation, myths, and cultural perception.
Anatomy of the prostate and anal area: the source of male bodily orgasm
The male prostate is a walnut-sized organ located between the bladder and rectum. It surrounds the urethra and is responsible for producing the secretion that makes up to 30% of semen; but most importantly, it has many nerve endings that make it extremely sensitive to stimulation.
The prostate is located 5-7 cm from the entrance to the anus, closer to the abdomen. If you insert a finger or a toy and make a movement “call with your finger” - you can feel a dense, rounded area; this is the prostate.
Its stimulation causes:
- erection without penile stimulation,
- powerful arousal,
- orgasm with deep muscle contraction,
- sometimes a non-ejaculatory orgasm, described as an “explosion from within”.
The anus is an area with two sphincters: an external (controlled) and an internal (reflexive) sphincter. To get pleasure, both must be relaxed; without this, spasms, pain, and injury are possible.
What a woman gets from pegging
The female perspective in pegging is quite unique. For many, it's an opportunity to take on a role that in classic sex almost always belongs to the man: active, guiding, leading. It doesn't necessarily involve dominating or feminizing the man; it can be a soft, warm leadership, where the woman takes care of her partner, enters with attention, but also with strength andinitiative.
Some women find in pegging a sensual power associated with literally controlling a man's pleasure. Seeing how he moans, how he relaxes, how grateful he is for the sensations - it makes you want to do more, to go deeper, to be bolder. And if a double strapon or internal stimulation is used, the woman gets bodily pleasure too.
How to prepare for pegging
The most important thing is calmness and lack of haste. If you are in a hurry, nothing good will come out. The body should be relaxed, and the anus - prepared.
First, hygiene. No, anal shower is not obligatory, but it gives confidence to both. Warm water, no fanaticism - just to free the lower intestine. Also, no soap and no chemicals.
Then lube, which it's not a recommendation, it's a necessity. And not “a little” but a lot. Water-based or silicone, no warming effects. Both phallus and anus are lubricated, and sometimes - fingers, if pre-stimulation is used.
It is better not to start immediately with the phallus, especially the first time it’s better to use a finger or a cork. Take your time, without pain; remember a man needs time for the muscles to let go, so if the body is tight, it will only be unpleasant. And when there is a feeling of “let in” - it means that you can move on.
How pegging itself happens
Most often everything starts with caresses, kisses, massage. Then - when both are ready - the woman puts on the strapon. The man lies on his back with his legs up, or gets on all fours. There is another option - on the side, it is the most “intimate” and soft.
Introducing the strapon should be slow, with feedback; not “shove in”, but as if the body itself prompts when you can enter. Sometimes you have to stop for a couple of seconds - just to wait until the anus “falls” inside. After that - light movements, no sudden thrusts until the body gets used to it.
Then it's game on. You can change the angle, rhythm, try to lean forward, stimulate the nipples, perineum, penis. You can talk - whisper, order, ask. The very moment when a man begins to lose control - it is special.
FAQ`s
Does it hurt?
It can - if you approach it wrong. But in general, pegging should not be painful. Pain is most likely to occur if: the body is not ready (muscles are tense); the penetration is too fast or abrupt; an inappropriate shape or size of toy is used; there is not enough lubricant.With proper preparation - relaxation, lubrication, slow pace - the sensations are pleasant, sometimes even unexpectedly pleasant. Some men experience slight pressure, warmth, vibration, a feeling of fullness and waves of pleasure.
How to choose a strapon to start?
For the first practice it is better to take a medium-sized phallus - not too long and not thick; usually it is 12-14 cm in length and up to 3 cm in diameter. The shape should be curved, anatomical, to hit the prostate area.It is important that it is flexible but elastic, and the material is medical silicone; which is safe, easy to wash and does not cause irritation. The belt is better on straps, with tight fixation, so that it does not slip and does not shift.
What kind of lubricant should I use?
It is best to use a water or silicone-based lubricant; with no warming, not flavored, and no menthol - it can burn.Silicone version lasts longer, but it can not be used with porous toys. Water - universal, but may require reapplication. The main thing is not to spare; lubricate both the toy and the anus, and occasionally - intermediately add more if the sensation becomes dry.
Is it possible to stimulate the penis?
Yes, and it often enhances orgasm. Some men cum from prostate stimulation alone, but most feel especially vivid pleasure if the penis is stimulated simultaneously - with hands, mouth, vibrator, whatever. It can be a fully synchronized movement, or the woman does the pegging and the man masturbates himself.
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