Irrumatio

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What is irrumatio and how does it differ from oral sex?

Irrumatio is a sexual practice that is referred to in both historical and contemporary contexts. Today, the term refers to a form of oral penetration where the active partner controls the process and the receiving party remains in a passive role.

Although it is similar to a regular blow job, the main difference is who sets the pace and controls the movements. In classic oral sex, the initiative more often comes from the receiving partner, while in the case of irrumatio it is from the active participant.

Irrumatio and blowjob: what is the difference?

The distinction between irrumatio and blowjob depends on which person maintains control during the act.

Who conducts the stimulating actions takes the leading role in a blowjob; the performer guides the cadence, and uses their oral cavities together with their lips and tongue to generate pleasure for their partner. Through this contact method the experience becomes more sensitive, while enabling different technique testing and better adjustment to receiving partner's perceptions.

On the other hand, the practice of Irrumatio gives total command of the stimulation to the person who receives it. This sexual position places the triggering party in control of the movement and pressure, while allowing the other individual to be receptive. Trust along with specific boundary discussions become essential, because too much controllessness from the recipient diminishes their comfort level.

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Historical context

In ancient Rome, irrumation had a distinct social hierarchical character. The term irrumatio was used to denote an act of domination and submission, often referred to in an insulting way in the poetry of Catullus, Juvenal, and Marcial. Irrumare may have been used as a show of power among upper class men and in military settings.

In the Middle Ages, influenced by Christian morality, any form of oral sex was considered sinful; therefore, irrumatio was seen not just as a forbidden practice, but as an act of humiliation and shame. In the Victorian era, discussion of such topics became even more taboo, leading to their virtual silencing in society.

In the 20th and 21st centuries, with the spread of pornography, irrumation gained new popularity, but is often presented in aggressive and exaggerated forms, which has created a distorted perception of the practice in many people.

Physiological aspects

During irrumatio, there is active interaction with sensitive areas of the oral cavity. For the passive partner, this can cause a variety of physiological responses, including activation of the gag reflex, increased salivation, and jaw muscle tension. Additionally, deep irrumation stimulates the pharynx, which can lead to involuntary muscle contraction, temporary breathing difficulties, or even dizziness.

For an active partner, irrumatio is an intense type of stimulation, especially in the area of the frenulum and the venous sulcus of the penis, which can greatly accelerate orgasm. However, improper technique or abrupt movements can cause microtrauma to the mouth, pharynx or lips in the passive partner.

Possible risks include transmission of infections such as human papillomavirus (HPV), herpes, syphilis and gonorrhea. To reduce these risks, it is recommended to practice good hygiene and use barrier methods of protection, such as condoms.

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Psychological aspects

Irrumatio is related to the power dynamics in sexual relationships. For some partners, it is an arousing act associated with trust and submission, especially in the context of BDSM. However, perceptions of this practice may depend on personal psychological attitudes.

Some people experience discomfort or anxiety, especially if their first experience was associated with pressure or negative emotions. It is important to consider that the pornographic industry often portrays irrumatio as an act of brutal coercion, which can form erroneous expectations in people who have no real experience of it.

A healthy sexual relationship involves voluntariness and respect for a partner's boundaries. If one partner is experiencing unpleasant emotions, coercive irrumatio is unacceptable.

Practical guidelines for safe irrumatio

Discussing boundaries before practicing is key to a comfortable experience. Partners should agree in advance on the depth of penetration, the pace of movements and how to stop if the passive partner becomes uncomfortable. It is important to consider physiological characteristics and possible limitations, such as the sensitivity of the gag reflex.

Before practicing, the passive partner is advised to relax the throat muscles, control breathing and watch the position of the head. On the other hand, the active partner should avoid sudden movements and constantly monitor the passive partner's reactions to prevent discomfort or injury.

Hygiene plays an important role in reducing the risk of infection. Both partners should keep the oral cavity and genitals clean and avoid irrumatio if there is inflammation or mucosal damage.

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