Gynesexual

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What is gynesexuality?

Gynesexuality is an attraction to people with strong feminine features, regardless of their gender. Gynesexuals can be attracted to both women and people with feminine looks, mannerisms, or behavior.

The term does not define the sexual orientation of the person experiencing the attraction itself. Gynesexuals can be men, women and non-binary people - the main thing is that it is femininity that attracts them, not the biological sex of the partner.

What is the difference between gender and sexuality?

Gynesexuality shows that attraction may not depend on a person's biological sex, but on their gender expression. This means that a gynesexual can experience attraction to people with feminine traits, regardless of their gender.

That being said, sexual orientation and gender identity are different things. A person can be gynesexual and still identify as non-binary, bisexual, pansexual, or homosexual; depending on how they experience their orientation and personal preferences.

The gynesexuality flag and its meaning

The gynessexual flag represents a community of people who feel attracted to feminine traits, regardless of the biological sex of the partner. It consists of three stripes - pink, brown and green- each with a different meaning.

• Pink (top stripe) - symbolizes attraction to femininity and people who identify as women. This color is borrowed from the flag of transgender people and emphasizes that gender expression, rather than biological sex, is the key factor in attraction.
• Brown (middle stripe) - represents stability, support and equality among people of all sexual orientations. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and inclusivity in the LGBT+ community.
• Green (bottom stripe) - taken from the genderqueer flag and symbolizes femininity that transcends traditional notions of gender. This shade emphasizes that feminine traits can be present in people of any gender.

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How did the term “gynesexuality” come about?

The word “gynesexuality” comes from the Greek root “gyn”, which means “woman”. The term is used to describe an attraction to feminine traits and expressions, regardless of a person's biological sex.

The concept of gynesexuality emerged relatively recently when there was a need for more flexible definitions of sexual orientation. Traditional categories such as heterosexuality and homosexuality did not always reflect the complexity of human attraction, as sexual interest can be directed not only toward a particular sex but also toward gender expression.

As awareness of the gender spectrum and differences in sexual attraction grew, it became apparent that many people were not attracted to a biological sex, but to certain qualities associated with femininity. It was in this context that the term 'gynaesexuality' was introduced to enable people to describe their orientation in a more accurate and inclusive way.

What is meant by femininity in gynesexuality?

In the context of gynesexuality, femininity is a set of physical, behavioral, and emotional qualities traditionally associated with the image of a woman. However, it is less about the biological sex and more about gender expression - appearance, mannerisms, and mode of expression that are perceived as feminine.

What traits might appeal to gynesexuals?

• Physical femininity - includes soft facial features, body shape, grooming, use of cosmetics, long hair, and clothing that emphasizes feminine features (e.g., dresses, skirts, elegant shoes).
• Behavioral femininity - manifested in mannerisms, empathy, caring, softness, subtlety, and delicacy. Some gynesexuals find calm and smooth gestures, careful speech, and gentle behavior attractive.
• Feminine self-expression - this can include clothing style, accessories, makeup, a certain tone of voice, gait and gestures. These elements create an overall image that can be attractive to gynesexual people, regardless of the person's biological sex.

How to support a gynaecological person

Because gynesexuality is not widely known, people who identify in this way often have to explain their orientation to those around them. This is why support from friends and loved ones is important.

If your friend or loved one is gynesexual, it's important to accept his orientation without judgment and create a comfortable space where they can be himself. This means making them feel safe without fear of criticism, questions with undertones, or attempts to change their mind.

Support is not just about words, but also about respecting personal boundaries. One should not question or demand explanations about who a person finds attractive; remember that attraction is an individual thing, and no one has to make excuses for what they like.

By showing respect and accepting a person for who they are, you not only help them feel more confident, but also contribute to a more inclusive and tolerant society.

What kinds of people might gynesexuals be interested in?

• Cis-women - those who were born and identify themselves as women.
• Trans women - people who were recorded as male at birth, but feel and live as women.
• Non-binary and genderqueer people - those who do not fit into a rigid male/female framework, but express themselves through femininity.
• Feminine men - guys who may look or behave in a more refined, gentle, feminine way.

How do you know if you're gynesexual?

Pay attention to who you like

Try to think back to someone you've been attracted to, both outwardly and emotionally. If you are attracted to people with feminine traits, such as softness, sophistication, mannerisms or style, and gender is not important to you, you may be a gynesexual. It could be cis or trans women, non-binary people, or even men who have elements of femininity in their image.

What is important to you in a partner?

If attraction is more often associated not with biological sex, but with feminine qualities - tenderness, caring, smooth movements or a certain style, this can also indicate gynesexuality. You may be attracted to people who express themselves through femininity, regardless of their gender identity.

Analyze your relationships

Think back to the kinds of people you've been attracted to in the past or like now. Maybe you've noticed that your interest is stronger not in a particular gender, but in people who have feminine mannerisms or energy? If so, gynesexuality may be part of your identity.

Don't jump to conclusions

Self-discovery is a process that doesn't need to be rushed. Your preferences are your personal experience, and it's important to give yourself time to realize them without pressure.