Double Penetration

What is double penetration?

Double penetration (DP) is a sexual practice in which a partner receives simultaneous penetration in two orifices. It can occur with either one or two partners, or with the use of a penis, toys or other devices.

Preparation, trust and respect for boundaries are important for a comfortable and safe BF, so that both partners can enjoy the process.

How to prepare for double penetration: important points

Discuss everything in advance

If you're planning to try double penetration with a partner or even two, it's important that it's not a spontaneous decision, and such an experience requires preparation and full understanding. In this sense, open conversation is the key to success, so discuss what everyone expects, what is comfortable and what is emphatically not. Set boundaries and come up with stop words so you can let them know at any point if something is off.

Plus, the very concept of DP can be interpreted differently for everyone; therefore, some are ready for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration, while others prefer only one of these options. To avoid awkwardness, all this is better to clarify on the shore.

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Find a comfortable position

The choice of position plays a huge role - comfort and the whole process depends on it. If we are talking about three participants, the classic option is the horsewoman's pose. In this case, the penetrated partner is on top of one, and the second is connected from behind; so with this option it is easier to control the rhythm and depth, especially if it is the first experience.

Another popular option is doggie-style, where one partner enters from behind and the other from the front. Also, you can try the missionary option, when one is between the legs of the partner and the other is on top. Additionally, there is a standing option if you want something more dynamic - one partner in front, the other behind.

Use sex toys

Double penetration is not necessarily three people, everything can be tried alone, too, using the right sex toys. This is especially convenient for beginners, because it allows you to fully control the process.

It is best to choose special toys for DP - for example, double dildos or models designed for anal and vaginal use at once. You can also add a toy to couples sex; for example, use a dildo for anal penetration if your partner is having vaginal sex (or vice versa). That way you can try double penetration without the third person involved.

Don't forget the lube

You can't go anywhere without a lube! Especially when it comes to anal penetration, because, unlike the vagina, the anus itself does not secrete lubricant. With double penetration, two zones are involved at once, which means that the friction can be stronger. So, in order to make everything as comfortable and pleasant as possible, it is better to use quality lubrication.

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Be careful with your partner and toys

When it comes to double penetration, it's important to keep hygiene and safety in mind. As with any other type of sex, there's a risk of contracting an STD or unwanted pregnancy if you don't use protection. But DP has its own nuances.

One of the main rules is not to change penetration sites without proper preparation. If something was first in the anus and then moved to the vagina (or vice versa), it can lead to infections. Therefore, the easiest way to avoid problems is to use a new condom each time you move.

You need to be careful with toys, too; never move them from one area to another without treating them beforehand. In this sense, it is better to wash them with warm water and soap or use special antiseptics for sex toys.

Types and formats of double penetration

Vaginal + anal

This is probably the most classic option that first comes to mind when talking about double penetration; in this case, two orifices are involved at the same time - the vagina and the anus. If you decide to try this format, it is important to prepare in advance so that everything goes comfortably.

First of all, anal sex is not something you should start with. If you have no experience with anal play, it's best to familiarize yourself with it separately first - whether with toys or a partner. The fact is that the anus takes more time to get used to, and without enough preparation, you may encounter discomfort or even pain.

Vaginal + Oral

Oral sex is also considered a form of penetration, so combining it with vaginal sex is one of the DP options. This format is perfect for those who are just getting familiar with the practice.

The plus side is that for most people vaginal and oral sex are already familiar things, so psychologically and physically this option is easier to accept. If you want to add originality, you can use special toys, for example, a dildo, which is attached to the chin, turning the process into something completely new.

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Anal + oral

This option is less common than vaginal + oral, but it too has its fans. If you're comfortable with anal practices, then the combination with oral sex can be an interesting experience. The main thing, as with anal + vaginal, is to make sure that you or your partner(s) are ready for this process and everything happens at a comfortable pace.